Unexpected Change of Truth - Laura Mottola - Actor, Writer, Filmmaker - Season 5 - #217

Empowerment, Creativity, and Diversity with Laura Mottola on the Us People Podcast

In this enlightening episode of the Us People Podcast, host Savia Rocks sits down with the multi-talented Laura Mottola, an actor, writer, and filmmaker with a rich story to tell.

Laura shares her inspiring journey from a small Italian town to becoming a creative force in London. The conversation delves into themes such as the power of diversity and creativity in shaping our world, overcoming challenges within the entertainment industry, especially as a female actor, and the pivotal moments that have defined Laura's career and life philosophy.

Listeners will gain insights into the importance of staying true to oneself, forging one's path amidst adversity, and Laura's passionate quest to craft stories that touch hearts and provoke thought. The episode not only highlights personal growth and artistic empowerment but also tackles significant topics like gender discrimination in the arts and the role of cultural background in shaping an artist's identity.

00:00 Introduction to Season Five
01:20 Laura Mottola: A Journey of Creativity and Identity
01:37 The Essence of Creativity and Overcoming Industry Stereotypes
02:50 Navigating the Complexities of Artistic Evolution
23:27 Addressing Gender Discrimination in the Acting World
40:48 Empowerment and Final Reflections

The truth we hold within is a living, breathing entity, shaped by the unexpected moments that mould us into who we are meant to be - Savia Rocks

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Transcript

Savia Rocks: 0:00

Hey guys, we made it to season five of the Us people podcast. I'm your host Savia rocks. And in this season, we aim to empower and embrace creativity through diversity as we dive into the fascinating stories and experiences of a diverse range of individuals. Highlighting their unique perspectives and creative endeavors from artists and entrepreneurs to innovators and activists, we celebrate the power of diversity in driving creativity and fostering positive change. Join us as we engage in thought provoking conversations like, I made myself intentionally homeless in pursuit of my purpose.

J harris: 0:41

We're aware that. A lot of people want to present and they, and they were in my position and what's worse, they weren't a white male, which is a joke. That's even still a thing. I

Mel: 0:49

think my family never ever say you can't do something. So full of support, full of support for whatever dream. If I said tomorrow when I fly to the moon, they'll probably say, I wish you all the best Mel.

Savia Rocks: 0:59

So guys, I just want to say thank you for supporting the Us People podcast for the past five years. I really look forward to sharing another new theme song. With you, let's go.

Laura Mottola: 1:20

Hi everyone. My name is Laura Motula and I am an actor, writer, and director. And I am really pleased to tell you that you're listening to the Us People podcast with Savia Rose. Enjoy it.

Savia Rocks: 1:37

Hey guys, and welcome to another episode of the Us people podcast. I'm your host, Savia rocks. And today I'm humbled to have Laura here with me. Laura is quite a creative person and I love speaking to creative, calm people and I can see Laura smiling, smiling already. So. Laura is an actor, writer and director and it's quite unique because I haven't had a lot of actors on the show and that's why, to me, this podcast is so important. Laura, I want to thank you so much for coming on the Us People podcast. How are you?

Laura Mottola: 2:15

Savia, thank you so much for having me. Um, I am really honored to be here with you. It's been great meeting you so far, and I am really, really excited about this.

Savia Rocks: 2:25

I love that. Thank you so much for coming on the show. I'm humbled to have you on. So my first question that I love to Us every single, every single guest who comes on the show, To kind of mold them into the routine of the podcast is I would love to know more about you, Laura. So could you tell me a bit about your background, where you grew up, but also how that influenced you to be the person who you are today?

Laura Mottola: 2:50

Of course, that is a, that is a really great question. Thank you, Savia. So I, I am Italian. And, um, I, I grew up in Italy and I was in Italy since, um, until I was 18 years old. I've always been a quite creative person and I felt like I come from a very small town. So I think I should really say that because it really did impact me as a person so much and as a creative I would say too. Um, um, so I, I always felt the need of, um, um, Doing something else, you know, just leaving the small town and finding, finding myself, you know, it's probably a very genetic term, but it really applies to me in that case, um, in the big world. So I was 18 and I moved to London, um, all on my own, no family there. First time experience living on my own. And, um, You know, the, the good thing is that I already knew the language. So, um, it was quite all right. Um, and I had my first experiences and, you know, working environment, because I had just, um, uh, finished my high school and I went straight into the big city, um, and not just an Italian big city, but, you know, a complete different country. Um, and, um, it was a very, um, very, you know, you know, I'm 26 now, so I should probably say that it's been quite a while. Um, I made London and the UK my home, um, and it's been ups and downs. It's been, um, it's been great at times. It's been difficult other times. Um, and I loved every bit of it. In terms of my, um, career, my artistic career, I, I would say that I, it came quite late in a way that, you know, when you, you know, that you want to do something, you know, that you've got something to say, but you don't know exactly how you want to say it.

Savia Rocks: 4:54

That's true. Yeah.

Laura Mottola: 4:56

So, so for me, it was a little bit of trying here and there saying what worked for me and that's something that I really advise, um, on doing to everyone, just try everything. Don't say no, don't, don't stop yourself from trying to do it. And, you know, If it works, it works. If it doesn't, that's absolutely fine. You've got nothing to lose. Just trying. Um, and then probably when I was 21, I was like, okay, you know what? This is my calling. I want, I want to be an actor. I want to be on stage. I want to be on camera and, um, I want to tell stories. You know, I want to live a thousand lives just in one. I'm, I'm, I'm not satisfied about just this one. Um, I want to be me and I want to be a lot of other people. So, um, so I, I took that seriously and I started my training. I, I trained for three years, um, and the training really gave me a lot. Obviously, you know, um, everyone approaches their artistic career in a very different way. Um, and that's very, you know, that's very important to say, um, because each of us has their unique path. So what I try to say all the time is whatever works for you, works for you. So, um, so basically I started my training and I learned so much and you know, I feel that for me, training really gave me the tools that I needed to. Take everything that was, you know, in here. And for those of you cannot see me, I'm just, you know, pointing in my brain, um, and, and, and put it out there. So that's what I've been doing so far. I haven't stopped since. Um, I, I had the chance to collaborate with a lot of great people, uh, with a lot of great artists and, um, Um, and I traveled, um, a lot of cities in Europe with, uh, with different performances and, and shows and, and it's been great so far and I really cannot wait for, for everything else that will, you know, come my way.

Savia Rocks: 7:06

You've got a lot coming your way just by what you've just said just there.

Laura Mottola: 7:10

Thank you so much.

Savia Rocks: 7:12

I love that. So one question, another one that I do like to Us, which is a bit more of a reflection question for you actually, Laura, is who do you see in a mirror? When you look in a mirror, who do you see? But also What does your reflection say back to you as an individual, but on the flip side of the question, has there been a time in your life where you have looked in the mirror and you didn't recognize the person staring back at you?

Laura Mottola: 7:41

Oh, So many times. So I'll start with the beginning of the question, and that's who do I see when I look in a mirror? And I would say, you know, I see Laura, and she's, she's, she's a very interesting person at times. She, she can be very insecure. She can be very confident, and she can be fierce. She, she loves to do so many things and sometimes she wants to do everything at the same time and end up doing nothing as well. You know, that's, that's, that's a little bit me as well. So I'm not ashamed to say that. Um, you know, I, what I can say is that the person that I see, I like her and I'm proud of her. A lot of times I, I'm a very insecure person and, and that reflects back at me many times. You know, you have ups and downs all the time and, and it's okay too. I, I accept every moment that comes my way and I deal with them, um, as I go. And that's, that's all I can do. And, um, you know, Many times I don't recognize the person that I see. A lot of times I have let maybe my emotions and better, you know, and take over my better judgment. I've been ashamed of myself, maybe, you know, just because as you said looking at the mirror not recognizing the person that I, that I, that I was or that I wanted to be because sometimes, you know, I feel like There is the person that you want to be and then there is you striving to become that person and sometimes I Wonder am I the person I want to be or am I the person that strives to be? Whoever I want to be. Um, and that's probably an ongoing question for me. And, um, maybe one day I'll find the answer. Um, I'm really, you know, open to it, but so far this is who I am. And, and it's a person that I like at times that I don't like other times, uh, that I'm, that I'm okay with. And sometimes she's funny. Sometimes she's annoying. Um, you know. She's a lot of things. So, but yeah, she's quite all right. I would say she sounds

Savia Rocks: 10:14

good to me.

Laura Mottola: 10:16

Thank you. When I meet her, let

Savia Rocks: 10:22

me meet her too. When you meet her, let me meet her too. That's cool. Sounds good to me. So let's break down your journey of being an actor, a writer and director, because they're all very heavily creative roles. You have to be. Especially within your craft in order for you to be an actor, a writer, a director, and you want to be the best. You have to be full on with any craft, I should actually say, I can't those ones, but with any craft, but what I do want to Us you is, I know that you went into them, but what did What drives you to go, um, how do you creatively say to yourself every single morning when you wake up, this is what you want to do.

Laura Mottola: 11:14

Okay. Um, you know, it's a feeling for me. Um, and again, I, I will never stress that enough. Creativity comes in so many different ways. When it comes to me, it's a feeling. There isn't, Urge to say something. There is an urge to let certain feelings out, and a lot of people find a lot of different ways to get those feelings out. Um, you know, and that could be either creative or maybe, you know, those people can come do those feelings, sorry, can come out in a, in, in, in, in a more negative way. Um, so I just try to challenge to channel everything that I have. In, in, inside of my heart, my soul, and my brain, and, and I, I, I take it with me with a character, I take it with me when I'm writing a script, uh, when I'm writing a stage play, or, I take it with me when I envision, um, um, a piece that I, that I want to direct and, um, you know, motivation is, is very important, you know, reminding yourself why you've taken this path is very, um, important. It's not just about, I want to be an actor. I want to be a director. What drives you to do that is very important. And it comes through in your, in your work. So what I would. You know, say to everyone as well. That's listening to us is find your reason, find what drives you because it changes everything. Your, your work is going to be perceived in a very in a very specific way. Um, and, and that's very powerful. It's a very powerful tool. So, um, yeah, you know, as I said, for me, it's, it's that feeling. Um, sometimes I have very, um, you know, Very dead periods of time where I just feel that there is no creativity left in me. And then other times I wake up in the middle of the night and I'm like, I have to write this down. I have to, you know, and I've done that so many times when I was younger, I used to write songs as well. And, you know, I, you know, when I was writing out things that, as I mentioned before, I actually thought I wanted to be a singer. And then I realized that I'm not a good singer. Aww. So I was just like, you know, the ugly truth, you've got, you've got to know your strengths sometimes, at least for me, at least for me. So I was just like, okay, that's not my thing. I should, I should, you know, let that to someone else. Uh, but I used to write songs. Um, and, um, sometimes I just wake up in the middle of the night with a tune in my head. I'm like, Oh my God, this is amazing. This is amazing. And I would have a song completed in about five minutes. Whoa. Um, yeah. Yeah, um, it was, it was almost like writing a poet, a poem for me, you know, um, and every, everything that I write or that I do has a little bit of me and a little bit of, of everything else that, that is outside of me. So there is a mixture of, of your, your, your nature and your nurture, if you want to say it that way. Um, so yeah, that's, those are some of the things that drive me, I would say.

Savia Rocks: 14:43

I love that. That's really actually inspiring as well. So my next question connects with the previous question. So could you break down the differences, especially with the creativity of being an actor, a Of being a writer and being a director because they all have their pros and cons, they all have different elements of creativity within them all. Could you break down the different elements of each one for you and how it fills a gap for you?

Laura Mottola: 15:18

Okay. Okay. Perfect. So I feel like, you know, those three things and, you know, um, creative, um, um, roles in general, I feel like they're all connected in a way, but they're all very specific to themselves as well. So just as in this case, you know, actor, writer, director, it kind of feels like they all come as a package, but then you have to you know, pick each of them and go like, okay, now this is you, this is you, and this is you. So as an, as an actor, um, you know, it's just about what, what I work with is. The idea of being someone else, you know, and I, I just really loved that idea of, of trying out a different version of me, you know, I, I always see that as that's, that's, it's not completely someone else that's still going to be in some shape or form still going to be me. Probably maybe a 10%, but it's going to be me. And it's kind of like my, my own parallel universes of me being that complete different person. So that's how it works for me. Um, that's what gets me into, into acting and, and, you know, mostly stage acting as well. It's just, it's a sense of fulfillment, you know, just. Being in front of an audience. And, you know, this is something that probably a lot of creatives and actors out there will really feel me when I say, I miss that so much because we've had a very rough time with, you know, with life audiences and it's so empowering, it's so. It's so beautiful to see people connect with your work. You know, when, when you're doing a film, you, you don't actually see those people watching the film. If you could watch their reactions, it would be probably amazing. Um, and you know, somehow when you're in a theater, you feel them. You feel them laugh, you feel them, um, cry or just cringe of, of something that you just said, then you're just like, yeah, I know what you're talking about. Um, and it feels, it feels amazing. And it's just really great to forget about everything else. Um, and, and be there, you know, it's a moment for me, strangely enough, it's a moment for me to be. Here now, you know, here and now for me, it's very important. And I, and I have spent my 26 years escaping from my year right now in my creative inner world. And. And acting is a way for me to be there in that specific moment. So that's what drives my acting. When it comes, when it comes to directing, it's, it's like, you know, it's having a vision, um, it's having a vision and wanting to communicate it to others. So, so it's just your way of somehow it's, it's your way of seeing the world. Reflected in your work and, and, and that's what it is for me. Um, you know, it's, it's, it's really, and, and, you know, what's really beautiful is that no matter how much you are, you have your vision, the, the, the actors and the cast and everything else around it will still. You know, shape that in, in, in a unique way because you communicate your vision and then other people still interpret it in their own way. So it's a fusion of people's reactions to things and it's just magical. It's just really magical. And writing, writing is probably the most challenging of the three things that I, that I attempt to do. I'm just going to say attempt because we're all attempting to do something, you know, um, somehow. So, um, and it's really challenging because it can be very frustrating. You know, um, I am also a very, Um, self aware, um, and self judgmental person. So I'm gonna pick everything that I do and I'm gonna, you know, rip it apart and then start all over again. I remember once I, I wrote something like 24 drafts of the same play. Uh, I'm, I'm sure that a lot of other people have done way worse than that, but I did. Yeah. I, I was just not satisfied. Then I kept on changing it and changing it till I, I managed to get the final product that I felt Was closer to me. It was excruciating, uh, but it was really life consuming, but it, but it, but you know, it paid out, it really paid out. And, um, so. So in that sense, though, it's very, it's very hard. It really pays off as well. And again, it's very similar to directing in that sense, because once you write, then you have to leave everything else and let the other people that take over your piece of writing. And do something about it. I feel like it's very important to also let other people interpret your work.

Savia Rocks: 20:52

Yes.

Laura Mottola: 20:54

Um, yes, it's great when you are an actor, writer, director all at the same time, but it's also very good sometimes just to take something that you've done, give it to someone else and see how they are gonna. you know, interpret it in their own way. It's even, it's even a greater satisfaction sometimes with their,

Savia Rocks: 21:14

I was actually going to Us you, do you feel, cause a lot of people I know who are, for instance, musicians or writers themselves and who write songs for other people, they feel like they're giving away a piece of them. And there's some people really, really hard to, to let go of their work or their craft. Is that, I know you, You said a little bit similar that you sometimes do feel that way, but what do you do in order to say to yourself, you know what, I need to let go, I need to let go of my work and give it to somebody. So, like you said, so they can interpret it in their own way, but people feel so sensitive. Why do you think people are so sensitive about giving their work away?

Laura Mottola: 21:56

Oh, because it's a part of yourself, you, it's your sweat and tears all put together and you know, you just don't want people to tweak it their own way and maybe, um, and maybe have it send the wrong message, but because it can happen, you know, um, everything is open to interpretation. So to be fair, even if you do it your own way, people are still going to interpret it their way. So that's one of the first things that I tell myself. Remember that everyone has got their own, uh, unique opinion. So you can never control a hundred percent how other people will perceive your work. And, um, for me, I feel like it's still a working process. I'm not going to lie to you. Um, I'm still learning how to let go, um, of, of my work. And, um, I. At this stage, I think that I'm at the point where I need to trust the person that I, that I give it to. I'm like, okay, you know what? I know that you are gonna do it justice. I know that you are gonna do something very good about it, and I cannot wait to see your version of it. Um, I haven't So far, given my work to someone else, um, that I didn't know at all, or, you know, didn't trust. So, um, probably one day I will and, uh, and I will let you know how that feels.

Savia Rocks: 23:27

Another one I would love to work is what is it like being a woman actor? Um, The reason why I say this is because I've had discussions before with people about men being actors and women, women being actors also, is there, um, is there still discrimination against women who are actors? And the reason why I Used this is very powerful for me to Us this question because I feel that we need to talk about this more. And, and, um, I've always wanted to Us more people. How do you feel being a woman actor? Do people discriminate against you because you're a woman, but also do you feel that you have to work twice as hard to be able to get to where, for instance, a man is? Because I've heard this many times that men get paid twice as much as a woman actor, which I think is unfair.

Laura Mottola: 24:29

Yeah, well, uh, that's absolutely true. And, and, um, yes, you know, it's one of those things that you can never, you can never say enough about this, this subject. Yes, of course, men get paid, um, um, more than female, um, actors. Um, I feel like this, um, Is more relevant to, um, screen acting than theater acting. Um, and in that regard, um, I would say that. Being a female actor, you know, it's sad to say, but in 2021, I still feel that there is a big objectification of, um, of the female in the film industry. Um, I'm going to talk about, you know, my home country, you know, um, more than the UK. Um, I would say, and, and, you know, for instance, in Italy, um, there are still a lot of, you know, probably more than 50 percent of the female roles are, um, Um, you know, either not background roles, but just very non interesting female characters that don't, just don't do us justice, you know, really just don't do us justice. They, they're only, they're, they're, created in a way that everything that you see about them is their, their figure, their, you know, their body appearance, their beauty. And, uh, you know, and, and this objectification still goes on, has been going on for forever. And it's sad that, that we at least, There in Italy, we, we just don't talk enough about it yet. And, and it's very sad. Um, and you know, and, and, and it's a struggle as well, you know, even, even for actors, there are, there are looking for, um, agents, there are certain standards. You are the good looking girl. Or you are the not good looking girl. And that's something that, you know, that really upsets me as well. Like there is no such thing as good and bad looking people in general. There was just different people and that is it. So we are all human beings and we are all beautiful and unique in our own way. And, you know, um, a lot of castings and that, that come my way as well. Just like we're looking for. Um, uh, curvy, beautiful, you know, they actually put beautiful as a, as a requirement of the character. And I'm just like, what do you even mean by beautiful? How do you define beautiful? What what, you know, I'm beautiful, you know, for my, according to me, I'm beautiful. You're beautiful. Everyone is beautiful. So how do you define beautiful? You know, and obviously I know what they mean when they say beautiful, the typical, um, standard of, of, of beauty of the 21st century. And, and you know, it's, it's just very upsetting that we are still at that point. and it's still okay to say certain things. It's just really, really upsetting and sad.

Savia Rocks: 28:09

Definitely. It's so good that you've taken the time to put that out there to everyone, because I think a lot of people think the industry is changing, whereas I feel there are still, especially when I read articles about people in Hollywood, Hollywood as well, because that's, that's the worst. Um, where they treat you in a certain way, especially if you're from countries as well, or you're a certain color as well, that plays another part as well. And these are things that need to be addressed because I think people are afraid.

Laura Mottola: 28:48

Yeah.

Savia Rocks: 28:49

Because they feel it might hurt their career, or it might, it might hurt a certain person of power's ego. And that's what we're dealing with, we're dealing with egos, um, where we as women, regardless if, for instance, I'm in the radio industry, you are in the acting industry, we as women need to stand up and say, we're just as good, maybe even better at doing our job. at doing our jobs as you guys, there are guys who are on our side is not every guy. So I'll say that for now. It's not every guy, but I'm so happy that you've said what you've said because it will give other women. power, because that's such an important power used in so many different ways to be able to push them to be able to speak more.

Laura Mottola: 29:42

Absolutely. And, you know, I would like to add something about it because you said something very, um, important about the, the, the Hollywood industry, which is the leading industry in when, when it comes to film, um, and is how people that are Of any different ethnicity or culture or, or typecasts, you know, I feel like we don't talk enough about it. I'm Italian and for me, there is a lot, a lot of doors that are closed to me because of me looking Mediterranean. Um, so I am only good as long as I play the Italian stereotype, which is very, you see, you know, like that, that is said, it doesn't happen so much in the theater industry. But when it comes to film, you know, because I have, you know, maybe because of my hair or my, my, my body type or my accent as well, uh, which by the way, just saying can be trained a lot of actors that are non British or non American just changed their accent very easily. And they managed to do it. You know, everything can be learned as skill. So why stop other very talented people from, from, from reaching out. And, and, you know, and, and, and doing something much more relevant in their careers, just because they are of a different ethnicity, um, and it's very, it's very, that that's probably even more upsetting than anything else, because, you know, you just feel that you're being treated differently because of where you come from, because I don't have a, um, probably us passport or a British one. Um, and. That is, you know, you should judge someone based on their talent, not, you know, anything else, you know, not anything else at all.

Savia Rocks: 31:45

Do you think it's the ignorance of the people who have been in the industry for years that are that way? And they're kind of, they're like the gatekeepers. So they have the key to let you in and they're not letting anybody else in unless they have the same type of mentality as they do. How are we going to stop? How do you feel that we stop this?

Laura Mottola: 32:05

Well, you said something really good. They're the gatekeepers. You know, so it's definitely ignorance, but it's also fear. It's fear of being taken over, you know? So you're, it's, you know, when someone feels threatened, they're just going to take a step back and, and, and, and shut the doors and be like, Nana, You're not coming any further because I want to be the one that's still in charge. Um, so well, to be fair, how can we, how can we change that? Um, for once I, I said to myself, you know, no one gives me a job. I'm going to create a job for myself and, and, and I'm gonna, you know, I'm going to do what feels right and truthful to me. Whether you as a casting director or let's say gatekeeper want to let me in or not you're not gonna stop me from creating my art and and and you know and challenging myself beyond that stereotype that you want to give me that stereotype where there is a female stereotype or a a specific ethnicity stereotype or or Anything else, you know, so yeah, that's that's what I So, and then obviously awareness, let's talk about it more. Let's put it out there. Let's continue educating people. Um, and that's probably the key to everything.

Savia Rocks: 33:43

I like that. That's great advice there. That's definitely great advice. How do you train yourself? Because that's something I would love to know. You talk about being different characters and being different roles and you love taking yourself from the present into the future. Another scene or another character, how do you, so if somebody say you write your own scripts, forget everybody else's for a second, say you write your own scripts, which you do, and you'll direct them. How do you work at your craft to be able to be the best that you can be, but also just for people who want to become an actor. What advice would you give them about. Being able to be different characters and adapt yourself to be these different characters.

Laura Mottola: 34:36

Okay, so I will start by saying that You're still going to be using a little bit of you as I was mentioning before you're still going to be using a little bit Of you in everything that you do you just have to find That aspect of you that can link to everything What you feel the character is, um, you know, we as human beings, we, we have infinite, um, you know, shapes of ourselves and our souls, right? So, so it's kind of like everything is there. You just have to dig a little bit and find what you need and let it out. So, when it comes to me, I, obviously, you know, I, I, I read my character over and over. I, I try to understand why she does the things that she does within the story. You know, the character's actions tell you a lot about who the character is. Just like our actions tell us to tell other people who we are. So by that you can, you can trace back what is your idea of, of, of her, of, of, of the character, what are her traits, what's her personality like, how she relates to the other characters as well. And you know, why she says the things that she says. I feel like it's very important to Us yourself, you know, questions about your character. Um, um, obviously You know, everyone, again, I'm never going to say that enough. Everyone does it their own way. Uh, but when it comes to me, I feel that learning about your character is very important as well. Um, obviously the, um, you know, um, you mentioned, um, the work that I would do. So, you know, something that I would write in that case, I already have an idea of what the character, um, is like, so, you know, when I'm conceiving a character, I'm like, okay. this is the kind of person that you are. So there was already a little bit of background and then I work it out as I, as I rehearse. Um, so I'm obviously mostly talking about, um, theater acting in this aspect. Um, and rehearsals say a lot about, about your character, because when you, as soon as you become familiar with what your character says and, and, and what your character does, um, on, on stage, um, And then it becomes truthful, then it becomes very organic. And, and that's the point where you fit into the shoes and, and it feels, it feels just right to, it flows, you know, it flows, it just, it just does.

Savia Rocks: 37:37

I like that. Hey, how do you work with something that you don't necessarily get along with? I know you've said you've worked with so many people, but one fundamental question I would love to Us, I think it was, um, There was a movie where two actors didn't get along, but because they didn't get along, their chemistry made the movie a success. But in your terms, and just in your opinion, have you ever worked with somebody who you don't necessarily get along? How did you make it work?

Laura Mottola: 38:13

Right. So, um, I will have to relate with what you just said as well about, you know, um, the chemistry happening, right? Because there was, there was a little bit of a conflict in there, you know, from conflict, there is a lot of things that can happen. I feel like conflict can be very positive at times, you know, it depends how you approach it. Um, and in my case. Um, I did have to work, um, unfortunately, I will say unfortunately, because it's never good to have, you know, uh, a negative relationship with someone. So I do not encourage it. Um, but yes, so I had to work with someone that I wasn't really going along with. Um, but first of all, there is stage one, that's professionalism. This is us. And that's our characters. You know, the moment you step on stage or behind the camera, you have to forget about everything that's, that, that's, that, that happened to you. You know, anything that is not relevant to that specific moment. I get back to the here and now, you know, that I was sitting before I get into the here and now it's presence. I am present here and now, and I am this character. So I forget about everything else that hasn't anything to do with it and doesn't relate with it. So that's, um, that's me when it comes to that, but as well, you know, um, it recently, I would say it recently happened as well. Um, um, and one of my latest, um, pieces before, um, obviously the pandemic happened. Um, And actually, the conflict that I had with, uh, with my co worker, um, helped our characters because we're, we were not supposed to be friends. We were, you know, so that, that actually worked in our favor. The, the animosity, um. was genuine in a way. So I guess it served a purpose and, um, yeah, but that's, that's what I say, you know, on a, on a general level, you have to forget about everything that doesn't belong to your character and, and just be professional because yes, you've got to enjoy what you're doing, but, but it's also your profession and it's, and you have to take it seriously.

Savia Rocks: 40:37

That's true. I like that. What is the best advice somebody has ever given you and how have you taken that advice throughout your life and your work?

Laura Mottola: 40:48

Right. I will say that, um, I was doing my, you know, I was doing my acting, um, degree at that time. And my, my teacher, my, my tutor, he came to me and he said, you have to remember this. Don't try and do everything a hundred percent. Sometimes it's fine to do something 95 percent and keep 5%, 5 percent for something else. Um, because, you know, there was probably a moment in my life when I strived for everything and I didn't quite do well in everything that I was doing. And that's, you know, and sometimes you have to make a choice. What is it that you want to focus on at this specific moment in time? What is it that you really want to put your energy towards? And maybe, you know, just accept that the other things around Can, can come out just a little bit, you know, a little bit. Okay. But, but you do one good thing. And I feel like that was very, very important for me because I am, I am a person that says yes to everything. I am like, you know, yeah, yeah, I'll do it. Yeah. I'll take that. Yeah. I'll help you. Um, and, and it can be a great thing and it can also backfire very easily. Oh,

Savia Rocks: 42:25

I know. Yeah. Yeah.

Laura Mottola: 42:27

Yeah, I feel like you can relate to that yet. So probably you will understand me when I say that, you know, sometimes it's, it's important to say no as well. Um, it's important to take time for yourself and it's important to accept that you might not excel in everything, but you can, you know, pick and choose what you want to excel in and maybe be okay in a few other things.

Savia Rocks: 42:54

I like that. That's definitely, that's good advice, guys. I think you guys should take it.

Laura Mottola: 42:59

You

Savia Rocks: 43:00

guys should take it. So let's talk a bit more about. If you could name one film, best film that you've ever watched, because it inspired you also to be creative and do better work for yourself. What one movie would you choose? Do you have any movies in mind?

Laura Mottola: 43:23

Oh, I was just like, you know, um, bombarded by all the movies that I had in mind because This happens to me so many times, you know, I watch a film and I'm like, I want to do that. Yes, you know, it just sparks something in me and that's amazing. But for the purpose of the question, I will pick, uh, one and, um, it's Dead Poets Society. Um, and it's the film, you know, you know that? Yeah. Yeah. You know, uh, Robin Williams and, you know, just one of my favorite actors. Um, you know, he's That's another story, but he's amazing. So, uh, I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna go on and on about how much I love him and venerate him. Uh, but I was probably around, I still remember it because that was a turning point in my life. So I was probably around 15 or 16 and that was the first time that I watched that film and I was in absolute tears. I loved every second of that film. Um, it was, Inspiring. It was life changing. It was, you know, because the film was all about doing what you're passionate about, you know, you know, fighting for what you want and, and taking your, your feelings and your emotion and putting them out there and creating something beautiful with them. And, and it really resonated with me. And that same day I actually wrote my first, um, song. And, and, and poem as well. It was the same day that I watched the film, I was crying and I was just like, you know, then I was, I was wondering around my house and I was like, you know, you know, brain on fire. This is it. This is, something's happening to me. Um, and I started writing and I never stopped, um, ever since, even though, you know, I started writing, um, writing songs because I felt that that's what My, my creativity was taking me at that stage. And then I, I, I attempted writing my first, um, film, short film script when I was probably just a year later. And then I continued, you know, on that, on that path.

Savia Rocks: 45:47

So yeah, I like that. You got me thinking. So I was writing down at the same time, head question. Okay. I write it down quickly because I was like, I must Us it. So. If you was ever at a film festival, what do you believe? Okay. Let me say it again in another way. If I gave you an unlimited budget of money, And you had the power to make any short film to inspire people in a film festival. What would you create? I know I'm putting you on the spot with creativity now, but what would you create to help even the next generation coming in, or even just people in general? Let's not categorize it. Let's just say people in general. What would you create to inspire people?

Laura Mottola: 46:39

Right. You know what, I, I feel like when it comes to me, I always tell myself, tell a story that you feel you can connect with. Something that I know, you know, I know what I'm talking about, you know, it, you know, it's very, it's great to strive for something different and do your research, but the truthful works for me comes from something that has deeply touched you as well. So when it comes to me, I, I would want to create something that tells. The story of how it is to live in, in the small town that I grew up, um, in, and I grew up with surrounded by prejudice surrounded by, um, by stereotypes and, um, you know, obviously it was also a different time and consider that we were in 2021, um, now, but where I come from, just, just put the clock back 30 years. And, and then you'll, you'll, you'll kind of realize what, what it is. So it's a very, obviously small, small towns are very similar, um, in the path of small minded people and, um, close mentality, um, judgmental and very, very, you know, everyone wants to know your business and everyone wants to talk about you. And, um, And so I'd want to, I, I would really want to write a story about this, about how, how a society like this can, can be very toxic, you know? You know, that society was very toxic to me, and, and that was definitely a reason to escape, but at the same time, I thank that society in the same way that you made me. Want to be this in a way. So it's kind of like love and hate, and that's going to be forever like this. I feel that that's what I'm going to feel for my hometown. And I would want to, I would want to talk about it. I would want to tell the story of. of a young person or a young group of people that strive to be different in a society that wants you to conform. And in this, you know, when I say different, I'm just going to have to say, I'm just going to have to clear that out because Um, what I mean to say by that is, you know, just not conforming to what other people want to make of you, um, and being true to yourself.

Savia Rocks: 49:37

I agree.

Laura Mottola: 49:38

And, and that's, that's, that's a kind of journey that I feel that one day I, I will write about when the right time will come and I will feel ready enough to write that story. I agree. I already feel it in my heart that it's there, but someday it's gonna pour

Savia Rocks: 49:57

out. It will come soon. I, I have a saying that I say, so it's one of those things where I turn around and say people who have time to talk about you and your life. don't want to reflect on their life and their insecurities. They don't want to. So what they do is they cover their insecurities by reflecting on other people's business.

Laura Mottola: 50:24

Yes. Yes. I absolutely agree with you, Savia. You know, and, and that really sums up everything. Um, about this society that I grew up, um, in and insecure people are also going to try to make you insecure and they're going to try to make you question yourself and, and, you know, and, and that's when you come in and have to make the active decision of keeping, you know, nicely and calmly away from anything that can just. you know, spoil your, your, your peace and your inner self and, and, and your truthful self.

Savia Rocks: 51:17

That's true. I never, I learned, I learned that it was a hard teaching for me to be able to determine. And sometimes, you know, the worst thing about it is the people who are closest to you that do it the worst to you. And you're like, what? And because you're so naive, because your heart is so pure, you as a person wouldn't think that that person would do it, but they do, you do it worse and it sticks with you. And it does make insecure for a long period of time. And it's not your fault. You have feelings, you have emotions, embrace your emotions because your emotions teach you how to go to the next level to evolve and evolving is one of the best things you can do in your life. Absolutely. Definitely. It's hard to go on to the next subject now because I'm so stuck on that one. We can

Laura Mottola: 52:12

continue talking about it. You know what? It's just, it's just so intense. And, and you said something amazing and that's evolving. And, and, and, and that is one of the things that, that a lot of people don't understand that we are never one in the same. We are ever changing and evolving different people. And, and that's what makes us amazing, you know, and, and sometimes I'm not sure if, you know, the people that are listening to us as well as yourself can relate to this, but there is a lot of people that, that I might have met in my life and friends for many years. And then they come to you and they say, you've changed. I don't, you know, and I'm like, yes, I have. And I am allowed to do that. And if you've stayed the same as you were 10 years ago, then you should Us yourself some questions. Because Exactly. Because my life and experiences have made me who I am today and Five years from now and ten years from now I will be a complete different person probably from who I am today because I will have had ten more years to get a lot more experiences and and Things advising me to be that person. So, you know, don't question me question yourself

Savia Rocks: 53:31

See, that's the, see, I would put that on a t shirt.

Laura Mottola: 53:35

Let's

Savia Rocks: 53:36

do it. I love that. I think we're going to have to put it on a t shirt. That's a good idea. If you get a t shirt post, you know who it came from, okay? Oh, dear. So if there was one question that you wish more people would Us you, but they never really Used you the question at all, because there's always something that we want people to Us us, but they never really Us us that question. What would you like someone to Us you and why?

Laura Mottola: 54:09

Oh, that is a very interesting question, actually. Um, well, you know, you, You've actually Used me a lot of the things that I, that I wanted to, you know, to talk about, like, you know, um, but, but in general, probably I would say that definitely, you know, what informed my choices of, um, and, and something that we, we, we recently just podcast, but, you know, it's just what informs my, my creative, um, what inspired me to become the person that I am. I feel like it's very, you know, a lot of people might not really care about where you come from and how you got to this point. And for me, I'm like, that is, that is so much part of who I am right now that I would like to talk about it. So exactly. So yeah, that would be the one.

Savia Rocks: 55:15

I like that. Which we kind of have spoken about it in a way. We have kind of, I'm so proud we have as well because there's so many things that we have spoken about today, which are so cool. I have two more for you. It's gone so quickly and I've enjoyed every single second of it, but my second, it has, you know, when you have a podcast with someone and it flows really nicely and it flows really smooth and easy and the time just flies by. I

Laura Mottola: 55:47

know. And you know, it's just really beautiful to have an open conversation about being human beings and being. You know, just the best version that we can be of ourselves right now. It's just, it's just very heartwarming. And, and I'm really, really, I'm enjoying it so much, Savi. I have to say that I'm really enjoying this. I don't know if you can, if you can see my excitement. But I am excited. I'm trying to keep composed. I

Savia Rocks: 56:22

love it. I really do love it. As long as I see all my guests with a big smile on their face, and I know it's something good and if I, cause I'm very spiritual, if I can feel that energy from that person, then I know the connection is there, which is another authentic thing to have between obviously the interviewee and the interviewer. My second to last question for you is. You have a long way to go for this question, but I'm still going to Us, what would you like your legacy to be when you feel, and only when you feel that you have done enough, you have been everywhere that you want to, you have traveled, you have acted as much as you could, you have written as much as you could, and you have directed with all your energy to inspire yourself and other people that you can. What would you like your legacy to be, but also how would you like people to remember you as an individual?

Laura Mottola: 57:29

Wow. That is a, that is a beautiful and, and, and very interesting question. You know, I, I would say that I would like to, to be known as. Well, first of all, for me, just making it as a, as an Italian female woman that has, that had little knowledge about anything that had to do with, um, with theater and film and, and writing and directing and started, um, you know, learning about this at probably age 20 to 21. That is for me, that would already be The, the, the accomplishment, you know, just. Being, being that person as, as, you know, with all of the things that I've just mentioned, so Italian and, and, and, and the woman and everything like that, just, just making it and having my voice heard, not just because of our, of being a woman. In, in, in, in the sense of, you know, you're looking at me, but you're not listening to me. And, and not just because of me being able to do the Italian stereotype of, Hey, anyone, you know, you know, not just, which I'm also pretty good at doing. You know, I, I, I enjoy doing that, but just being able to be remembered for something outside of those things. It's great. You know, the accomplishment is people seeing, seeing your work before seeing you and, um, and because, because that's, that's free of judgment. Then when they start associating it with who you are, there comes the dissection of things, which is part of it. So, you know, you've got to take the good and the bad and that's great. But, but, you know, just accomplishing the fact that people would see my work one day and And, and see as per what it is, that will, that would already be enough. Also, I would, I would love, you know, if I have to dream, I'm going to dream. So I would love to be one of those directors that have. that have specific traits to their work. You know, like when you watch a Tarantino film, you know that that's a Tarantino film. When you watch a Nolan film, you know, that's a Nolan film or, um, or Kubrick, or, you know, I can name, you know, Lynch. So many I can name, you know, and, you know, getting to that point of, of having your, you know, Signature to everything that you know that people see they don't even have to know that it was you They just feel that it was you. Um That's that's that would be that would be the thing so I I would like to be remembered as as an italian female version of of a great director and actor and performer and You know just being able to do all of those things at my best You It's not even about, you know, it's not even about the fame. It's really not that, you know, if you get, you know, sometimes you, you, you, you get carried away and like, yeah, that wouldn't be bad at all. Let's not lie here, but it's not about that. It's really not about that. It's just. It's just, it's just being heard and, and, and having people connecting with everything that you do and, and, and inspiring people as well. You know, when, when someone sees what you've done and they're like, you know, just the way that a film like that post society changed me, you know, a film completely changed my way of seeing and doing things. How powerful is that? If I could do something like that with any of my film, even just for one person in the whole wide world, I would be there. I would be happy and satisfied.

Savia Rocks: 1:01:46

See, I like that. I love the way that you went on a passionate tangent. It was so cool. I know when somebody is passionate about their work because they do that.

Laura Mottola: 1:01:57

Yeah,

Savia Rocks: 1:01:58

that's it. Just come off. I can just sit there and listen. I have a passion about just listening to people. People always feel like you need to say something after somebody says something to you. You don't know. Silence also says so much.

Laura Mottola: 1:02:15

Yeah, I feel like I have to be silent now.

Savia Rocks: 1:02:19

No, no, no, not at all. You don't have to. You've got to do the best part now. Because the last question is,

Laura Mottola: 1:02:25

yes,

Savia Rocks: 1:02:27

I've had the pleasure of having you on the Us People podcast today, and it has flown by. But if anybody else would like to contact you or even find out more about you and what you do, where can they

Laura Mottola: 1:02:42

find you? Okay. So, um, I'm just going to say as well that it's been an absolute pleasure to be here and, um, I'm sending virtual hugs to Savia for having me. And. To everyone that has been listening to me blubbing for about an hour, I am really humbled and honored. Uh, for the opportunity that you've given me and the time that everyone is taking to listen to this. Um, if any of you would want to reach out to me or, um, or find me, you can find me on social media. Um, so I'm on Instagram. You can just, you know, write my name and that's Laura Mottola. Um, I feel like I have to spell that out because it's a very, you know, it's, it's, it's an Italian name, so people might not really know how to spell that out. Um, and, um, I also have a, um, my, my, my production company, um, account on Instagram and that's called electric lace, uh, production. Um, so that's called electric lace productions and that's on Instagram. Um, also. You can find me on, on LinkedIn. Um, I'm on LinkedIn too. Um, and, and, and yeah, so that, that's how we connected. And, um, and again, my name is Laura, spelled like Laura Motola, uh, MO double TOLA. Um, so, yeah. Um, I'm not sure, um, if I, I can share my email address as well, if anyone would want to. You know, I'm, I'm not sure if that's. Appropriate or not. I

Savia Rocks: 1:04:22

always say with email addresses to people, they would like to contact you. They can contact me and I would Us. And then, or I'll introduce you through an email and I find that safer. Yeah. Because

Laura Mottola: 1:04:36

an

Savia Rocks: 1:04:37

email is so personal, I think to me is, it is personal. And, um, you, I know you can get it on your, on your social media platforms as well, if you look. Yeah. But when you're talking to somebody, I just prefer it to be a little bit more secure.

Laura Mottola: 1:04:53

Yeah. No, that makes sense. This is where I

Savia Rocks: 1:04:56

say, and I like to protect people. I'm very protective. It's just how I am. So I'll say, guys, if you would like to get in touch, please send me an email because my emails absolutely everyone. I don't mind, um, black belt in Kung Fu. So in karate. So. I'll beat you up. No, I won't really. I'm also going to give you a big hug, but if you would like to get in touch with any of our guests that I have interviewed, please feel free to contact me and I will Us their permission like I always do. And then when they say yes, I will happily connect you. Guys together, and then you guys can take it from there to know that I've done a great thing. So I'm happy with that. So this is where I say, thank you so much for taking your time to come in and Us people podcasts. I've said it and I'll say it again. Time has absolutely flown, but it's been such a humble, authentic. And Carmen interview of wisdom, kindness, and goodness. So I give you all the positive energy that I can to say thank you to you so much. So thank you from the bottom of my heart for coming on the Us People podcast.

Laura Mottola: 1:06:12

Thank you. Thank you so much for giving me this opportunity. I have loved every bit of it. And yes, one hour has flown by and, you know, I, I don't even know, you know, it feels like we started five minutes ago to be fair. I could continue talking forever. So thank you so much. I feel, I feel, I feel recharged with positive energy, which is, which is amazing as well. You know, when you connect with other human beings, it's just really great to have that, you know, and I was, and you, you allowed me to feel, um, you know, to feel at ease and confident and, and, and, and, you know, just. Safe enough to tell my truth in a very, in a very peaceful and friendly environment. So thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. Thank you so much, Sabia.

Savia Rocks: 1:07:07

Oh, thank you so much guys. Thank you so much for listening to the Us people podcast, and please remember you can subscribe on Spotify, iTunes, Google play, and any other platform that you prefer listening to. Please also follow us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter, and you can also donate to the Us people podcast by simply going to the Savvy Rocks website or just typing in paypal. me forward slash Us people podcast guys. Thank you so much for listening. Stay happy. Stay positive, and as always, please continue to be kind to one another.

Laura Mottola: 1:08:19

To you because Wow, that was amazing. That was really amazing. Thank you. Really, I mean, I, I, I meant every, every word of it. It was really amazing to, to be here and have this, this open and honest conversation with you.

Savia Rocks: 1:08:36

We're far behind. Oh. So full of courage. You can win it. If you try redirect. To you, you'll see the power. And yes, if you try. I fly like I'm Superman. Spread your wings and let them win. I fly like I'm Superman. Spread your wings and let them win. I fly like I'm Superman. Spread your wings and let the wind glide you high. We're just soaring through this journey, leaving